The Rules for are simple: Find Love, Not Lust. Therefore, we’ve provided a few guidelines to keep the site as “love friendly” as possible! By creating a profile and using this site, you agree to follow these rules. Failure to do so could result in account suspension and/or profile deletion.

Rule #1: Keep It Classy

Sure, this is a dating website, and you may be tempted to put pictures of your penis on your profile, but that’s not allowed here. We’re going more for love, so let’s start with the face and keep the privates private until it’s time to go there.

Rule #2: No Sexual Harrassment

This includes sending a dick-pic to someone when it isn’t warranted. You wouldn’t walk down the street flashing your Johnson to every Tom, Dick, and Harry, would you? If you would, this isn’t the site for you, and we suggest a program to help you with those urges. Instead, let’s focus on building a real connection! Talk about theatre, music, sports, the arts, anything! But don’t pressure anyone into hooking up with you, don’t send photos of your various nethers, and don’t post anything in your profile you wouldn’t say in a toast at Grandpa’s 90th birthday party.

Rule #3: A Complete Profile Is A Useful Profile

You’ve heard that expression, “You only have one chance to make a first impression,” right? This is your one chance! Have a completely filled in profile. Take some time to think about some of the questions! Don’t rush it. This is your opportunity to show that you’re smart and sophisticated and worthy of love. An incomplete profile says you’re too lazy to complete anything, and no one likes that…

Rule #4: Trips Are For Fun, Not For Sex

We’re not going to police what you do in your hotel room. That’s your own business. But if you post in the Traveller Forums about your trip, don’t immediately expect a midnight cuddle sesh from your travel partner. Whatever happens, happens. But don’t use the Traveller Forums as a global Craigslist. This ain’t that kinda site… And keep the Classifieds pages clean, too…

Rule #5: Have Fun!

You’re here to find love, so have some fun doing it! Make some new friends! Go on a few trips! Connect with people! Enjoy your life!

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See our support area where you can find questions asked by our members and answered by the Chasing Big Love team.

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